15 Hinge Openers That Actually Get Replies
Tired of getting ignored? These proven Hinge conversation starters will help you stand out and get real responses.
Why Your Openers Aren't Working
Most guys on Hinge send the same boring openers. "Hey," "What's up," or a generic comment on a photo. The problem isn't you — it's that these messages don't give anyone a reason to reply.
Great openers do three things: they show you actually looked at the profile, they're easy to respond to, and they spark curiosity. Here's how to nail all three.
The Comment-Plus-Question Formula
The most effective opener structure is simple: make a specific observation about their profile, then follow it with a question. This shows genuine interest and makes it effortless for them to reply.
For example, if their profile mentions they love hiking, don't just say "I love hiking too!" Instead, try: "That trail looks incredible — was that in Colorado? I've been trying to find a good weekend hike nearby."
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Get DateFlow Pro — $39Openers That Reference Their Prompts
Hinge prompts are goldmines for conversation starters. They literally tell you what the person wants to talk about. Use them.
If someone's prompt says "A life goal of mine is to visit every national park," you could say: "Okay, I need to know — what's your current count and which one is the most underrated?" It's specific, it's fun, and it requires zero effort to answer.
When Humor Works (And When It Doesn't)
Funny openers can work brilliantly, but they're high risk, high reward. The key is to be playful, not performative. You're not doing a stand-up set — you're starting a conversation.
A good rule: if the joke requires explanation, skip it. If it's a light, natural observation that makes someone smile, go for it. Save the deep comedy for the actual date.
Stop overthinking your texts
DateFlow Pro gives you 100+ proven templates so you always know what to say. Get more matches, better replies, and real dates.
Get DateFlow Pro — $39The Follow-Through Matters More
Here's what nobody tells you: the opener is only 20% of the battle. What you send second and third matters way more. Having a plan for the full conversation is what separates guys who get dates from guys who get ghosted.
That's exactly why DateFlow Pro includes not just openers, but complete conversation flows — so you know exactly what to say at every stage.
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